Bullet Journaling

This is not my idea, nor am I the first to blog about--not by a long shot. In fact, I first heard of bullet journals from Buzzfeed. In fact it was in this article. Very useful. Highly recommend.

Since starting my own bullet journal, I've found that there is a very active community of bullet journalers online, and specifically on Instagram. From this community, I've gleaned some handy tips and tricks that I've incorporated into my daily bullet-journaling. Here are my favorites concerning bullet journaling.

I Know I Shouldn't Get a Dog

I know. I KNOW. I know I shouldn't get a dog.

I know that I'm particularly tempted to get one because EVERYONE in my neighborhood has one. I know the reason it's on my mind is because I see hoards of puppies on my commute to and from work. I know living near the park, where doggies big and small love to run and play makes me a prime target for this kind of urge.

I recently discovered the joy of corgis, and that's making this even harder.

How CUTE is that? 

I know, I know. All puppies are cute. You're right. They're biologically designed to make every living thing love it and want to protect it and cuddle it. It's science. So I shouldn't fall for it.

Damn you, science! 

I know I don't have a fixed apartment or job or location, but these puppies are staring me in the face everyday and it's getting harder to resist. 

To all those young professionals/recent grads who want a dog, but whose lifestyle forbids it, I am with you. I stand with you.

Join me in raising awareness for our suffering. Share your story #puppylessmillenials 

Moving to New York

I've lived in two apartments in New York so far in my life, and I feel like I've won the lottery with this second one. So here are some tips to help you hit the jackpot with your next NYC apartment. 

1. Windows are important! Sunlight cheers you up and makes you feel like you're not in a small square box. Windows are hard to come by, but I have three in my little one bedroom place, and it makes a difference. Just compare the two photos below:

                         

2. Take subway stops into account. Being close to a subway line makes life infinitely easier. Last summer, the trek to my closest subway line was riddled with catcalling men, creepy abandoned lots, and busy highways. I have to admit that I didn't always look forward to the journey and that occasionally impacted my decisions to go out or stay in. My new apartment is a beautiful seven minute walk from the subway. I actually look forward to my commute to work. 

3. Don't get cable. College students and recent grads, rejoice! You heard me right: you should not get cable. Get a smart TV, or a Roku. That is really all you need. I bought a TV with Roku built in and have been so happy with it. I hooked up HBO, Netflix, Amazon, Hulu, and Spotify with ease. These are all subscriptions you probably already have anyway. A smart TV is the easiest and most affordable way to use these services to their fullest. Here's the TV I bought:

4. Tupperware is huge. It doesn't sound exciting, but when you get a box of all those little clear squares that fit together so snugly you get a surprising pleasure out of it. And if you're cooking for yourself (which you should because money), having a way to store your leftovers makes the food you cook go the extra mile. Leftovers are king. Tupperware is even better if you have your shit together and you cook for the week in advance.

5. You're going to want to wear new, fancy shoes. Don't. I wore an innocent looking pair of flats to my first day of work. They were even from Clarks, the supposed king of comfort shoes. But they rubbed my heels raw and I limped home from my first day of work, making me feel like a dejected and very unsuccessful New Yorker. So wear sneakers. Sneakers reign as the uncontested top shoe of NYC and don't challenge their authority. A sleek pair of kicks will fit in at most offices, running errands, normal running, maybe light jogging, Trader Joe's, shopping, bars, and most anywhere else. Just look how fashionable this woman is!

6. Say hello to people. New Yorkers are notoriously cranky, but I've found that as long as you're not trying to strike up chatter with someone running to catch their train, people are pretty friendly. If you're waiting in line, talk to your neighbor. They usually open up, and these small conversations brighten my day every time. Talk to your regular neighbors, too. Don't stay anonymous. If you're having a bad day and you walk up to your building, being able to exchange a wave and a greeting with the people you encounter, instead of reserved closed-mouth smiles, can cheer you up. While you're at it, say hi to the people who work at your local bodega, or your UPS guy, or that lady you always pass on your way to the train. Yesterday, on my way home from work, a woman was sweeping her steps and looked at me as I passed. I ignored her and kept walking. This morning I passed the same woman, but I smiled. She joked with me that I'd be late for work and told me to have a blessed day. I hope I see her again on my way home today. These small interactions can build something that feels like a community. Plus, you never know when you might be in need of a friendly face. Like if you get locked out of your apartment, for example. 

It's a big place. Be nice to each other.

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Graduated

This post is a bit overdue, since I graduated two weeks ago now, but it was too big a milestone to leave un-turned. (Does that count as a pun?)

I don't think my expiration from college will fully sink in until the fall when everyone returns and I am not invited.

There are so many things I will miss. Some of those things include: tomato tortellini on Sundays, walking down middle path and saying hello to at least three people every time, the sun setting next to Old Kenyon, how big the sky looked, frisbee with some of the best people in the world three days a week from 4-6, incredibly smart and unbelievably caring professors, talking about books all day every day, my friends my friends my friends, and feeling like I was a part of that little place on top of a hill.

On that hilltop, I learned more than I ever thought I would when I arrived as a lanyard-wearing-first-year. I learned about myself: my flaws, my strengths, and what I stand for. I learned about the world, though I only left the hilltop for a few months at a time. These past four years have changed me, and I hope for good.

Although there is much I will miss, I like to think that there's even more to look forward to. I just moved to Brooklyn with one of my favorite people to a neighborhood I'm so excited to explore, I'm starting my dream internship (that will hopefully turn into my dream job), I'm going to cook for myself (fingers crossed the meals will be edible), and I'm going to meet new people that will become friends.

This is a time of transition, which comes with a lot of emotions. But for all my fellow graduates out there, I think we should remember that this is an exciting new step--not a scary one (although it may seem that way). While we have more responsibilities than before, we also have more choices and more freedom than ever before. Take advantage.

Thank you Kenyon, thank you family, thank you friends. Thank you for four incredible years.