Monday, October 27, 2014

Amsterdam!





So, my wonderful friend from Kenyon, Alex, proposed a trip to Amsterdam and since it was on my wish list of places to go and also he is great, I was more than happy to agree to book the trip. 

While the rumors are true (there is a lot of weed), there is also a lot of culture to experience in Amsterdam. After leaving our smelly, damp, 12 person hostel room, which our group amazingly filled, our massive clan moved to many cultural destinations. My favorite was the Van Gogh museum. The museum was well laid out and cohesively charted Van Gogh's artistic journey until his mental breakdown and bloody death. Interestingly enough, the stories I heard in school were not true. Van Gogh did not chop off his ear to give to his love. He gave it to a prostitute. Though that romance was falsified, the one Van Gogh had with his brother was not. The artist's brother stood by him and supported him until the end. Their gravestones are even on the same plot. I found this relationship the most moving part of the museum. 

We also visited the Anne Frank House. We waited in line for two hours before we entered the tiny house, which was essentially an extension of the line outside. The museum goers moved at a snail's pace in a twisting ribbon of tourists pressed front to back. The only survivor from Anne Frank's life was her father. Anne died shortly after her sister. A childhood friend of Anne's who was interviewed for the exhibit believes Anne might have fought through if she had known her father still lived. If Anne had survived one month more, she would have been freed. 

We visited the Heineken experience, Pancake houses, other museums, and the Red Light District, which left me conflicted. When I looked at the women standing in the windows, beckoning to the passerby with a bed visible behind them, I felt uncomfortable and a little disgusted. Wasn't this just another example of women being sexualized and mistreated? But then I had a thought. These women were doing what they wanted with their bodies, which is just what we've been asking of governments: the right to decide what we do with our own bodies. Because prostitution is legalized in Amsterdam's Red Light District, there are regulated STI checks, mandated condom use, and young girls can't fall into the business unnoticed. It's safer. So I was left with mixed feelings. Were these women suppressed or liberated? I didn't like seeing women jiggling in windows with men browsing them like store wares, but what right do I have to tell those women what they should be doing with their bodies?

A highlight of my visit was a tour of the canals in a little open-air boat. We had the boat to ourselves since we had so many people in our group. We saw so much of the city and its beautiful architecture, which was perhaps my favorite part of the city. We also got up close and personal with the many houseboats there are along the canals. The city was vermiculated by the canals, which meant that you were never steps away from water. Our tour guide explained to us that the buildings in Amsterdam are tall and narrow, making it hard to get furniture to the higher floors. As a solution, the structures were built tilted slightly forward, with hook at the top, so that you could use a rope slung over the hook to hoist furniture through the top window. The buildings were tilted so that they could withstand such pressure. It gives the city a unique taste that I loved. 

Bikes might as well be the mascot of the city. Forget cars, bikes are the way of the future. Everyone whizzed around Amsterdam on a bike. Little bits of metal jutted out from the back of bike seats so that an extra passenger could be accommodated. I saw a man riding a bike with a woman sidesaddle behind him with a cat on her lap. Enormous, open wooden crates were slapped on the front of bikes. I saw another man bike past with three kids bouncing around in such an attachment. It doesn't seem safe, but it sure seems convenient, and that's all that matters. Why would anyone have a car when they can transport four humans and a cat with one bike? 



Now pictures!

Tuesday, October 7, 2014

An English Homestay




Two weekends ago, I boarded a bus for a mandated weekend away. This sounds more like a rehab experience than a family home stay, but it was rehabilitating in its own way. I wasn't sure how to feel about it. I was nervous and slightly hesitant at the idea of staying in a stranger's home. But I'd heard good things, so I was open. 

Arriving in England, I stepped down from the bus with Devon, my assigned fellow home stayer, and we were whisked away to a town called Appleby, Cambria by a friendly couple in their early 50s. On the sheet I received that held every scrap of knowledge I could glean on this couple who I would be alone with for the weekend, I was informed there would be a dog. I was excited about this dog. I was comforted by the idea of this dog. When we drove up the wife asked, "Is anyone allergic to cats?" Dubious, I responded, "I am a little bit, but I pretend I'm not so I can pet them. But I thought you had a dog?" She replied, "We did but he died." 

A moment of silence for the dog.

We plopped down in the sitting room (with the cat that was very much not a dog) and before I knew it I had a glass of wine in my hand and a hot bowl of chili in my lap. It was euphoric. The night was spent watching British TV with me occasionally proclaiming that the chili was the best meal I'd had in weeks, which was all too true. 

My bed was perhaps the best part of my home stay. It was big, white, and fluffy. I slept in a marshmallow and I couldn't have been happier. There was even a sink in the bedroom, which I found strange but convenient.

The next day had homemade jams, a death defying 100 mph drive through the windy English country roads (lined with sheep, no less), a football match, a delightful lemon chicken and risotto, and a little more British TV to cap off the night. I learned a few notable things that day. The first being that at the concessions at the football stadiums, they allow neither beer, nor bottle caps in the stands. Both are precautions against fights. I ordered a coke and, unsurprisingly because I was denied a bottle cap, spilt it everywhere. The second has to do with sheep. The sheep all have spray paint on them, not from some rebellious country boy making a joke, but to identify one farmer's sheep from another's. Some sheep also had another, messier paint marking. Upon inquiry, I found out that the farmer attaches a bag of dye around the rams' necks so that they can keep track of how many sheep he is...ehem...intimate with. From then on, sheep with a surplus mark made me uncomfortable. 

The next day was our last and we spent it driving through their old neighborhood. I learned that if a town name ends in "by" it means that it was originally a viking village. We visited an old castle, as well, and then it was time to get to the bus. I was sad to say goodbye. We said sincere goodbyes to our hosts with promises to try to get together if we could. 

I didn't know it when I left, but a respite from the city was just the medicine I needed. The English countryside was as beautiful and open and filled with sheep as I imagined. I came back from my home stay refreshed and with a new perspective. The clean country air made my mind clearer and swept away the residue cloud of homesickness that might have been hanging over me. I felt more like myself.

And now for pictures! And for those of you who skipped over the text just for the visuals: welcome, you sneaky devils.